Thursday, December 26, 2013

KEEP TRYING & KEEP PRACTICING

Today I taught a special class at the gym.  It was a post holiday class.  "R.I.P.P.E.D."    One 55 year old man approached me after my class and said, while wiping the sweat off his head, "this was the hardest thing I have ever done, but dammit I was determined to push myself to a place that I want to be, AND I DID!"    I knew what he meant, because today I did something very different.  I wanted to challenge them with this workout.  I knew they could do it.  But when I told them the layout of the workout before we started, I could see the looks in their eyes and on their faces.  THEY THOUGHT I WAS CRAZY!

Well, 124 push-ups later and 172 squats/lunges later, I knew how they felt:


The beauty of it all was every participant in that room was either a beginner level or intermediate level.  When they were done, they were cheering and cheering like they were at a King's game and Demarcus Cousin's had just made the winning shot!

Every single athlete started as a beginner


It's an amazing thing to be able to witness and push people past their comfort zones, especially beginners.

Most people overlook the fundamentals of being a beginner.  These people today, although pushing themselves out of the beginner zone, understood that to be proficient at anything you must practice the basic fundamentals FIRST to build to success.  They come to the gym each week, trying to get stronger and stronger.  Yet, they had NO idea with all that practice how strong they've become.  I was about to show them.

Many people get scared off from working out.  The kind of working out the ends in RESULTS.  They are afraid to DO THE WORK - but yet want to lose weight. I'm afraid to be the bearer of bad news, but if you want to lose weight, YOU MUST DO THE WORK.  But, here is something I want you, those, that might be reading this paragraph, you that might say, 'this is me," to remember something very important - and maybe this will help you to get started.   When you see a class at your gym, or a workout DVD that MIGHT SEEM TOO HARD, remember this.  You can still do that workout. It's OKAY to do it at a beginner level.  You see, every workout has a modification.  But YOU mustn't be TOO PROUD to be a beginner or to modify.  We ALL started as a beginner! Every single one - even the instructors teaching the workout.   I have people with so many illnesses and physical limitations that come to my classes faithfully, and never make an excuse or complain one bit. 

Maybe you worked out a time or too, and thought, "this is too hard!" Sure it is.  It's going to be hard in the beginning.  The only way it's going to be more bearable is when you decide to be consistent and STOP working out once in a blue moon, or performing exercise that doesn't even begin to get your heart rate up.  How long do you want to be a beginner?  How long do you want to be a sideliner cheering others on that reach their weight loss goals?  Do you want to get past that stage so you can just get the weight off?  I'm sure you are saying YES, I want to get past the hard part in the beginning!!!!  DO IT!

THERE'S ONLY ONE WAY TO GET PAST IT - START AND KEEP GOING. CHANGE YOUR ATTITUDE.  CHANGE THE  NEGATIVE WAY YOU VIEW EXERCISE.

Then in each workout, go a little longer than the one before.  Each workout, make it a little more intense than the one before.  Change up your workouts periodically so it will help to strengthen your body and its performance.

It's up to you.  The weight will not come off by itself.  It's okay to be a beginner...I promise, if you stay consistent you won't be a beginner for very long, and you might just be surprised that you fall in love with exercise!

Remember, NEVER BELIEVE YOU'RE TOO GOOD or TOO WEAK TO PRACTICE! There will always be another level of growth waiting for you.  It's time to get started.

Well, here's me a couple hours after that workout - NAP TIME!


Wednesday, December 25, 2013

My Wish To You..

My Christmas wish for you -- 
 
I hope you experience peace with your family (or whoever you are with) and have it in you to give forgiveness freely where you see unrest. I hope you are able to seek and experience all the love you deserve, even if you have to bravely give it to yourself. If you are grieving this season, I hope you feel connection. I hope that anywhere you see joy, you allow yourself... to roll around in it, lather yourself up in it. And if you aren't into Christmas, I hope you at least have a day off, and suck all the glorious life out of it. Blessings and permission to stop stressing.
 
HAPPY HOLIDAYS TO ALL OF YOU LOCAL AND ACROSS THE WORLD! I thank you so very much for having an interest in this page.
 

Tuesday, December 24, 2013

IT'S TIME TO ACCEPT YOUR GIFT

I can attempt to inspire you to get up and change your life until I'm blue in the face.  But, it will only work when YOU decide to take charge of your life.  Nobody can make you. 
 
Let me ask you a question.  Have you ever set a goal and the reached it?  So, when you achieved that goal,  did you look back at the journey that IT took you on to reach it? Yes?  Me too.  It's amazing what you can learn.  Many times we will shake our heads at ourselves. We begin to realize what we were like in the beginning. We made excuses, might have been lazy at first and even doubted  ourselves.  But now, we wish what we  know NOW, we knew then, you know when we were we trying to reach  that goal.  You ever do that? I sure have.
 
Well that's how I feel about weight loss and getting started.  If I would've known then, at the heaviest weight I'd ever been in my life, 210 pounds-- what I knew now, I would've never allowed myself to get like that.  Why?  Because I can't even imagine allowing myself to become that unhealthy. I can't imagine a life without with out exercise and clean foods.  I just can't.  I could have never imagined then the energy, the drive and the desire to continue to push myself in ways that I never knew I could. I never knew my body could do what it does when it comes to working out.  When you get to THIS place, and you see your friends, your client's and your students that make up so many excuses, talk the talk but not walk the walk, you just want to shake them and tell them, "trust me, I know it's hard in the beginning but you MUST get started! You must never stop and you must never look back and allow yourself to live like that again! Because on THIS side, life is so different and so much better! "
 
But I can't shake you.  My words won't shake you.  Only YOU can stand up for yourself and for once and for all get started and never stop!  I promise you this, you will love yourself so much more.  IF you PAY ATTENTION along the way, and I mean REALLY pay attention, you will learn what your TRUE weaknesses are about yourself along the journey.  You will get to experience smashing your own doubt and conquering your own fears, which will in fact make you stronger, more driven and much more determined.  PAIN IS YOUR TEACHER!
 
When you start to see results in your body, you will push yourself even harder.  It will become fun to do so, even though you know you will have to work hard.  You will become a brand new person.  A better parent, a better partner, a better co-worker - A BETTER YOU!
 
So, when? When will you STOP talking about it and starting DOING something about it?  Some didn't make it in 2013.  Their weight became their life's crutch and four people I know died due to their weight issues.  PLEASE I AM BEGGING YOU to get started!  Because every single end to the year, if you can look at yourself and say wow I'm heavier this year than last year, then I'm talking to you and this is your life and you CAN do this and you can TAKE OVER and not let your weight ruin your health and your way of life! 
 
NOW I know many make resolutions. Many don't keep them.  Many resolutions fizzle within the first 60 days.   I challenge you today that if you make one that involves weight loss....PLEASE SEE IT THROUGH.  Let the learning be your gift and the pain will be your teacher.  The pain will teach you TO NEVER put yourself through THIS over weight life again.  I'm here to answer any questions and advise you as much as possible!
 

 

Saturday, December 21, 2013

SECRET - MOTIVATION

If you need something or someone to motivate you....Watch THE VICTORIA SECRET FASHION SHOW...And ladies let me tell you, that oughta motivate you!  WOWZA!

I think I was chewing on a snack when it came on.  Soon as the ladies hit the runway, I suddenly wasn't hungry any longer.

I look forward every year to the music choreographed to their themes and of course the girls...Taylor Swift's dress was AWESOME...YES I WOULD WEAR IT!

Watching this fashion show sure did motivate me.  It made me sort've chuckle to myself as I thought, "damn, can I have that body!?"

Well, it is POSSIBLE! HOW?  It's all in the way you look at weight loss. How do you view having to lose weight?
First start with your mind and your thoughts.  If you view exercise as a chore and/or you hate it, as well as you don't like to eat healthy. You can't stand it.  This means you are not ready to lose the weight and change your life.  You can be though.  Depends if you are WILLING to change your mindset.  When you do, you will know you are ready.  You will find types of exercises that are challenging enough, yet you enjoy it.  You will select foods that you love, yet are clean and healthy. You will view this as YOU LOVING YOURSELF to the fullest.   GET MOTIVATED = find what works to motivate you!  Everybody has their own way.

Mine, it's the SECRET!  So, ...Enjoy this SECRET!

 

Thursday, December 19, 2013

I have something VERY brief to state today.

If you watched Courtney Kerr last week on Bravo, NO, NO & NO! Hemorrhoid cream a cellophane wrap  does NOT promote long-term weight loss!

One Viewer took it so literal, she must have been trying to give herself an overnight facial?

LADY THAT WON'T WORK!


Stop making it so hard.  It's back to basics.  Eat a balanced meal, 2 small snack a day, exercise regularly and get plenty of rest...YOU CAN DO THIS

Thursday, December 12, 2013

Flashback Thursday!

I find this picture of myself hilarious!  This was me getting ready to teach a step aerobics group class around 1994 or 1995.  


I had a lot of hair and perms were my deal!  Sadly, I wasn't as passionate about educating people about health and wellness as I am today.

I was around before the lovely JILLIAN MICHAELS (as I'm actually help promote one her home DVD workouts on the top RIGHT of my blog page ha ha ha ! Click on the picture and then click on the picture again to get more info on how you can buy her DVD, the one below it you can do the same thing, that one is 90 days worth of workouts and a nutrition plan) And funny thing is as I got older,  I REALLY wanted to be fitness household name.  I just didn't have a clue as to go about it.  I really, still don't ha ha ha! Well, now that I'm 45 years old.  My time for that might be up.  

BUT I WILL BE HERE AS LONG AS POSSIBLE TO INSPIRE , MOTIVATE AND HELP THOSE WITH SUCH NEEDS - REGARDLESS OF MY 'STATUS' AS A FITNESS PROFESSIONAL!

Happy Thursday!
That Gym Girl!
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