Sunday, October 26, 2014

A QUICK NOTE FROM ME




You are not born a winner.

You are not born a loser.

You are born a CHOOSER.

Sunday, October 12, 2014

Question.   Are you REALLY in control of your life? Are you creating your life and always evolving? Do you know what you motivation is?  Do you know why you are here and what you are meant to do?  Do you know how to find out?

Development begins at the first moment you know what you are supposed to be. You probably wouldn't learn what it is, unless you are constantly connected to your SOURCE. Or, you wouldn't learn what that is, if you are not truly PRESENT in your life.

People that just go through the motions in life are not in recognition of their life, they have no perspective. They are also blinded by the power of their own EGO.   Narcissistic people are controlled by their EGO.  So clueless, that they wouldn't even realize this applies to them.  They would believe it applies to everyone else.

Going through the motions in life is what I witness some of my friends doing and family doing. Existing is what a lot of people do. LIVING is not one of them.  Think about it.  I don't think you were born to get up go to work, come home plop on the couch and start again the next day.    This has created a lot of unhappiness within people and a sense of non-fulfillment.  Do you ever feel that way? Do you ever feel that there must be more to life than this?  We were placed here to serve others, not ourselves.  So whatever it is you are meant to do, I'm pretty sure it will involve serving others.


 The only way to find your motivation and what your life is to be about it, is to crucify your ego.

Love faces us everyday in different forms.  IF YOU STAY ASLEEP IN LIFE and let your EGO be the king of your castle, you will have never known the love, the form of love that stood before you, around you, above you, under you, beside you, the love that was there in so many ways and in so many forms , daily, weekly, monthly, annually, it's been there, it's still there WAKE UP,  STAY AWAKE, BE PRESENT IN EVERY MOMENT. Technology is a great DISTRACTION.  So to actually be present in the MOMENT, those moments don't involve your phone (PUT IT DOWN - especially when with others!).  There are many things I do with friends and family that I don't need to have my phone out taking photos of every play by play moment to post on Facebook or Instagram.  I don't need to respond to comments on Facebook. Or see what everyone else is doing while I'm DOING SOMETHING! LOL.   PUT IT DOWN. I myself had to work on that.   There are times people are loving you and you are too busy looking at your phone and miss the entire moment!  Being seriously present helps you find your way, the way I am speaking of.   I've experienced this firsthand with some friends.  I'm talking to them,  I have them over my home, etc.  and in midst of conversations, here comes the stupid phone.  And you will get nothing but "uh-huh, uh-huh" with no eye contact.  You know!  You might be guilty of this or have had this happen to you.

Life may not go the way we think it should.  WELL YOU CAN DO SOMETHING ABOUT THAT. First wake up! Start LIVING rather than EXISTING.  Pay attention to THIS - We are in control of 2 things, how we prepare for what might happen and how we respond to what just happened.   What keeps us in the valley of frustration is our response.  We cannot allow external forces to bring us peace and  fulfillment.  Use your personality work for the spirit within you. That Spirit is embracing your true self. Sadly people don't think they are good enough, so they wouldn't experience this.  I HAVE AN ANNOUNCEMENT -- YOU ARE GOOD ENOUGH!  YES YOUR ARE!


You see, there is no story without conflict.  This is how we grow. Without conflict we cannot build ourselves and manage what we aspire to achieve.  If you are not AWAKE you won't know how to deal with conflict.  You could have an attitude, "you screw me over, I screw you over."  That's not a healthy mentality, that is evil. That is a person controlled by their EGO.  YIKES!


By knowing yourself and where you want to go, you can then control external forces to keep your internal peace, so you can keep pressing forward. Getting back at someone because they pissed you off is not healthy.  You are better than that.  This is an external force that will TRY to throw you off track, in a negative direction, losing your focus on where you want to go and are meant to go.  THAT IS YOUR EGO RUNNING YOU.

Our body is here to experience the show of our soul.  What show is playing out for your body?

- That Gym Girl